Dear Wives and Wives in waiting- GIVE HIM SOME SPACE (WWIW)

Sometimes, when a lady is not in a relationship and doesn’t have many friends, she could get lonely if she doesn’t engage her mind in other entertaining / profitable activities and that’s understandable. However, there are a lot of ladies who are generally very “needy / clingy”, that they feel a man is the solution to their loneliness but it really isn’t because there are times the man will be busy and he won’t have their time as much as they want. Then these ladies begin to feel like he is cheating or he doesn’t have time for them anymore, so they track his life down with phone calls / text messages on repeat…

Wives-in-waiting, this should not be the case. Please give the guy some breathing space; you are not yet married to him. If you feel he is cheating on you; don’t worry, pray about it; I am sure God will expose him. Besides, if a man wants to be with you, see you or hear from you; he will call you, so don’t give yourself hypertension because he hasn’t picked your calls all day; maybe he is busy. Although some men, seriously need to work on communicating with their women more. They need to re-assure her and make her feel secure. Regardless ladies, don’t stress; just get busy, engage yourself in some work, even if you don’t have a job. Let him miss you too, and don’t be resentful by not answering his phone call after you gave him 5 or 10 missed calls back-to-back; hear him out first. Lastly Ladies, men love their space, so let him have some “me-time”. Besides, there is always one Man who needs your attention and will always have your time 24/7; His name is JESUS, so cast your cares upon Him. ❤️
Let the reader understand…


3 Comments Add yours

  1. ashleygulley says:

    Love it! I had to learn this the hard way, being clingy and needy and sometimes unreasonable has pushed lovers away and shown me more about myself than other people. Showed me how much I was dependent on others for love and attention.
    Great post!

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    1. Me too! I’m glad we both understand this💜

      Liked by 1 person

  2. Onengiyeofori David Alamina says:

    Interesting write up

    Liked by 1 person

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